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When NOT to get married in NYC

Planning a wedding in New York City can be an exciting adventure, but it’s essential to consider the timing to avoid potential challenges. NYC is a bustling metropolis with a unique rhythm, and certain times of the year can present specific difficulties. Here’s a comprehensive guide to when NOT to get married in NYC to ensure a smooth and enjoyable experience for you and your guests.

A vintage NYC cab decorated for a wedding, with a bride and groom sitting inside alongside their adorable chihuahua.

Winter Months: January and February Weddings

New York City winters can be harsh, with January and February being particularly cold and snowy. While the city can look magical under a blanket of snow (and don’t get me wrong, winter weddings are actually my favorite!), the cold weather can be uncomfortable for guests, especially if you plan any outdoor activities or photographs. Snowstorms can also disrupt travel plans, making it difficult for guests to arrive on time and for vendors to deliver their services smoothly. Additionally, icy sidewalks and streets can pose safety risks.

A vintage NYC cab serving as a backdrop for a wedding couple.

Summer Months: July and August Weddings

The summer months of July and August in NYC can bring extreme heat and humidity. High temperatures can make outdoor ceremonies and receptions uncomfortable, if not actually dangerous, for you and your guests. The intense heat can also affect your choice of attire, makeup, and hairstyles, potentially leading to discomfort and logistical issues. Furthermore, if venue ACs aren’t built for those busy summer months,  you may need to provide additional cooling options like fans or misters, adding to your budget.

A wedding couple posing beside a vintage NYC cab.

Major Holiday Weekends

New Year’s Eve/Day Weddings:

Planning a wedding around New Year’s can be challenging due to the high demand for venues and vendors. The holiday season is a busy time for travel, leading to higher accommodation and transportation costs for your guests. Additionally, many people have existing plans or traditions for New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day, which might affect their ability to attend your wedding.

Memorial Day Weekend:

While Memorial Day offers a long weekend, it’s a popular time for travel, resulting in higher airfare and hotel prices. Many people take advantage of the holiday to go on vacation, which could impact your guest list. Additionally, NYC hosts numerous events during this weekend, which could lead to increased traffic and crowded venues.

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Independence Day Weekend:

The Fourth of July is synonymous with fireworks and festivities, making it a busy and noisy time in the city. As mentioned earlier, the extreme summer heat during this period can also be a deterrent. Travel and accommodation costs can spike due to the holiday, and guests may have pre-existing plans for family gatherings or vacations.

Labor Day Weekend:

Labor Day marks the unofficial end of summer, and many people take advantage of the long weekend for one last summer getaway. This can lead to higher travel and accommodation costs and potentially lower guest attendance. Additionally, venues and vendors might have limited availability due to the high demand.

An elopement couple is silhouetted in front of a window in NYC.

Thanksgiving Weekend:

Thanksgiving is a time for family and traditions, and many people travel to be with their loved ones. Holding a wedding during this weekend could conflict with these plans, leading to lower attendance. Travel costs can be exceptionally high, and accommodations might be more challenging to book due to the influx of holiday travelers.

Two grooms in stylish white and black suits pose in front of a vibrant graffiti wall, one with a contemplative expression and the other with a smirk, reflecting a modern and urban wedding theme

Specific Event Weekends

Marathon Weekend (First Sunday in November):

The New York City Marathon is a significant event that attracts thousands of participants and spectators worldwide. The influx of visitors can lead to higher hotel prices and limited availability. Additionally, extensive road closures and traffic disruptions can make navigating the city challenging for guests and vendors.

Fashion Week (February and September):

NYC Fashion Week brings a surge of visitors, including industry professionals and celebrities, resulting in high demand for hotels and venues. Prices for accommodations can skyrocket, and popular spots may be booked well in advance. The increased activity in the city can also lead to crowded streets and longer wait times at restaurants and other attractions.

UN General Assembly (Late September):

The United Nations General Assembly session brings international dignitaries and visitors to the city, resulting in heightened security measures and significant traffic disruptions. Hotel prices increase, and availability can be limited. The added security and road closures can make it difficult for guests to move around the city freely, impacting their overall experience.

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Final Thoughts

By avoiding these months and weekends, you can help ensure a more comfortable and accessible experience for you and your guests. Choosing the right time for your wedding can significantly enhance the enjoyment of your special day, making it a memorable occasion for everyone involved. Consider these factors when planning your NYC wedding to create a seamless and joyous celebration.

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